typically girl friends start drama when it comes to relationships - ';you're man is so this and that blah blah blah'; nitpicking and analyzing how one little move is ';bad';
are guys just as judgemental? What if there was a little misunderstanding - would they forgive and forget along with the guy? or carry a grudge...
i know guy friends would hate on a girl if that girl did something REAL shady - cheating on him, leading him on, etc...Are guy friends more judgemental when it comes to relationships?
I think some of them talk **** about their friends g/f's, but mostly if they don't have their own girlfriend. Others just don't seem to care at all. If the girl seems possessive and bossy they might raise an eyebrow. If there was a misunderstanding, I guess it would depend what it was about. Guys don't really think about that stuff as much, from what I've experienced.Are guy friends more judgemental when it comes to relationships?
Guy friends stick together. As the saying goes, 'Bros before hos'. That means that they will support a guy if he's really happy in a relationship. If she is unattractive or mean, a real friend would tell the guy that and make him aware of it. But for the most part, guy friends will stay out of a guy's personal business (his relationship) unless they think he's really screwing up. If she cheats, then real guy friends will definitely hate on her and tell him to drop the loser and look for someone else.
Girls can be cuthroat, backstabbing, cold-blooded, manipulative and evil to each other, even to people they call friends. Guys call people like that enemies, got out on the playground and punch on each other until one quits being that way.
The guys I know will be really superficial, and 99% of the time totally good intentioned to their brothers girlfriends. They may say she looks nice, or that she was rude, but its only if she does look nice or was rude.
If the girl goes face-eater on their brother well then, the enemy of my ally is my enemy.
The only weirdness I've ever seen comes when there is serious jealousy, and one guy is trying to steal his brothers girl. Thats not petty, thats take him to the playground and beat on him.
Sometimes if the gf really damages the relationship, like if they were buds and spent good time playing pool once a week for years, but the new girl says ixnay on the pool, that can hurt. Thats not about petty, thats about hurt though.
Hope that helps.
guys tend to be more reactionary. guy upset? then the ***** did him wrong! guy seems ok? then she probably can be forgiven but man she hurt him before. guy seem stoic and unresponsive? denail! he is in deep pain! remove this women before the guy does the evil bad thing and cries where we have to be uncomfortable around him!
we tend to hold a grudge SLIGHTLY longer then the guy that was hurt. but only slightly. let us see that your not hurting the guy anymore and we calm down pretty quickly. the ladies tend to hold a grudge _forever_
want um to forgive you fast? do something nice for him 'just because' where they can see it. guys having a little get together? make some notchos just before heading off to do something if it's just no big deal just something nice those guys will fall over themselves to make him get over it. if it's obviously a ploy to get into there good graces though.....backfires badly.
';There isn't a 'JEALOUS BONE' in my body.';
';The 'BLACK' term, 'What it do?', applies here.';
';With a female friend already in a relationship, I keep it 'none
of my business', I just 'stay tuned', then see 'What he do?'.';
';Nope. I never ask.';
';By the way, check this out; I've never had a female friend in
my life in a relationship with someone else or looking to date
somebody other than myself, in my entire life.';
';I'm either dating her, she have friends that are female, but oh
no, I don't call them or meet them. If they call me, there's
something wrong somewhere, or it's a 'PARTY LINE'.';
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