How do you convince a 14 year old friend (guy) not to become a pornstar?

Ooook,





Im sure this sounds really wierd but.


His parents really dont care about being intelectual or working,


he's not dumb, but needs some direction yeah


He really likes, (from what ive heard) mixing music, and art and stuff





Ummm im really really worried, although ive spoken to it about with him i wasnt sure how 2 put it.





thank youHow do you convince a 14 year old friend (guy) not to become a pornstar?
Most male porn stars first start out in gay porn. So yeah that might discourage him. Unless he's gay. In that case, tell him that's a very difficult industry to break into and actually make a living of. Most don't get past the amateur level. How do you convince a 14 year old friend (guy) not to become a pornstar?
Point out that he won't make any money off of porn. Maybe one person will buy a DVD or something, but then he's just going to rip it and torrent it. 12% of the Internet is made up of porn sites. 12% of the whole damn thing is specifically dedicated to porn. He won't get noticed, particularly since nobody in the industry will hire a 14-year old. Anyone who will is probably not going to help him get in to the business.





Also, as far as I can tell, porn isn't just getting laid a lot. You have to be sure you're lined up for the right shots, you have to do everything right, you have to do it in front of people, people will be yelling at you...not fun.





Tell him to wait a few more years and work on staying athletic. Right now 'I want to be a porn star' means 'I want to have sex with lots of women,' and what 14-year old boy doesn't think about that?
It is a very difficult task,especially when u are not his parent.But one thing is consistent with young people,they always have dreams.They are open to any thing that comes their way.Ask him what he wants to do and be in life,and what he will do for others through it.


Tell him stories of people of achievement,tell him he could be one of them.Just feed his mind with good stuffs,but don't it force on him.


I like your spirit and concern even if he is not your son,and if you have a kind of feeling for him or bond,it means you have something to give to him,and you can.
Erm,,


Explain to him there is so much more he can do with his talents ?


%26amp; that he will get more respect by getting a job that doesn't involve having sex or preforming sexual acts ,, for other peoples pleasure.....


Erm he is only 14 so I don't think it's legal.......





Good luck





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I am sorry, but I do not know! Talk to a doctor?
Are you his parents, sibling or related. If you aren't his parents, please don't bother. He belongs to his parents, not you. But if you are his parents, here's my advice-





He want to be a pornstar right? If he is determined and really enjoys the job, let him work as a pornstar. It's his life. He can choose whatever job he wants to take as long as he enjoys it. Taking a job that makes him alot of money but he doesn't enjoy is pointless. Parents are there to guide their children to the better things but if the child begs to differ, let them go. Parents are not there to control their child's life, or force them. Its his life, not yours, I say again. Since you don't want him to be pornstar, tell him to consider being a artist or a music producer. But if he is resillent, let him be a pornstar.





Too be honest, I think that 14 is a young age for a pornstar.





If you aren't a friend or parent, please butt out of this.





Hope I helped.