Why when a girl cheats with a guy does she get blamed for it all?

If a girl definalty knows a guy has a girlfriend and has met her a few times but are not friends or anything, is she at more fault then the guy? Because I don't see how his girlfriend is her problem, she's not in a commited relationship, he is. And unless she breaks up with him, she has no reason to be mad at her. If he gets a free ride, so should she. If you let him get away with it and not her it just shows how jealous she is.





And isn't it a girls responsibitlity to make sure her man doesn't want to cheat?


Like personally I don't date because I'd just cheat anyway plus I'd much rather just hook up without being ';attached'; to somebody. But I don't consider just kissing other girls as cheating because well it's not a big deal to me. I kiss everybody it's meaningless. By why are girls so paranoid?Why when a girl cheats with a guy does she get blamed for it all?
Kissing isn't meaningless. It might be meaningless to you, but that's because you misused it. It's like ';I love you';, if you say it to everyone it does become meaningless but that doesn't mean ';I love you'; has no meaning.





Secondly, girls are not responsible ';to make sure her man doesn't want to cheat';. It's like saying your responsible for what your friend does. You can only influence your friends and you can only influence your boyfriend. It boils down to the fact that he's his own person and he should take responsibility for his own betrayal.





Somehow parts of society claims that somehow men are victim to their sexual desires and thus they come off with the conclusion that it was the female who seduced the male and therefore they get all the blame. It's completely incorrect, but that probably what explains it.





My warning to you is ';hooking up'; with people is only going to cause massive problems for you later in your love life. You will always compare and when one compares you always find fault. Also, your distancing sexual acts from love. Thereby making it just an act of pleasure and when it's just that, then its meaningless and you will always struggle to have a good relationship because of meaningless sexual acts. There would be no intimacy, and without intimacy you cannot foster trust. The lack of trust kills most if not all of relationships. You are warned that hooking up is a destructive behavior. I'm probably not going to convince you, but hopefully you'll stop sooner then later.