My girl-friends best-friend (guy), came over this morning, with roses and a note to her....!?!?

He shows up, while I'm outside, asking to see her. I had no clue why he showed up, but he was asking to see her, so I came inside my house, and told her, he was outside. After she told him to go away over the phone, he proceeded to knock on the door, then abruptly leave. After he was gone, we came to find a note, and 12 roses at the door. Come to find out from my girl, he told her he was ';in love'; with her about a week ago, via Text message, full well knowing, she is involved... How, as a boyfriend should I act and feel, in this situation?My girl-friends best-friend (guy), came over this morning, with roses and a note to her....!?!?
No one can tell you how to feel. You either HAVE feelings about it or you don't.





i will say that if i were your girl, getting hot over the situation would not set well with me. He may have said he cares for her, but if she is not returning that feeling than the guy is to be pitied, not trashed.





It's nothing... not really and she did nothing wrong. The poor guy likes her and YOU won already.





He is a bit of a cad to make a play for a female who he knows is attached, but his manners are not your concern. If you are worried that she has feelings, be truthful about that and ask her, but when you get the answer let it go and don't make a big issue of it.





Nothing wrecks a relationship faster than the imaginary transgressions of one or both partners. Be happy you have a woman in love with you that others are attracted to too. Feels good, doesn't it? But she is YOURS and as long as she cares for you, some guy on her porch with a note and flowers is not going to change it.





Relax... all is well.My girl-friends best-friend (guy), came over this morning, with roses and a note to her....!?!?
You're welcome. Very...

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making a play for your girlfriend is seriously disrespectful to you. You should be angry definately but he must be totally in love with her to do such a thing so try to be a bit sympathetic. Dont get jelous and make things tough for your girlfriend, this is a bad enough situation as it is. She obviously loves you or she would be with him.
If she told him to go away, clearly she is not interested in him!


So, why are you worried? Unless, he starts bugging your gf, u don't have to do anything besides being there for your girl. If he bugs her, then go n tell him to leave her alone because she is your girl and she doesn't like it!!!
good, she didn't tell cuz you don't have anything to worry about...if she was seeing him behind your back she'd most likely tell you then be like but you can trust me blah blaha blha lol....as for him he's getting kinda creepy so i would tell her to watch that creeper....he's like stalking her
kick his *** is something i would do but im not a smart person. i get jealous extremely easy. ask her what does she feel for him. if she says she feels nothing, tell her if he doesnt leave her alone hell kick his *** because its not right he should say things like that t ur girl
You can't control someone elses feelings, hurting him or talking to your girlfriend won't do anything to change his feelings for her. All that matters is that u love ur gf and she loves you back.
Let your gf handle it, she's a big girl. Obviously she already tried to distance herself so she respects your relationship with her.
First off kick his *** for disrespecting you and stalking her, then find out from her what she is doing to keep this guys attention. I have been there and its some BS
Confront her.


Ask if she likes him.


If she does, dump her sorry azz.
you may wanna make sure she isnt involved with this other guy in a way more than just friends...
let her decide, hurting him will only get him more points
kick his a$s!!