Friday, August 20, 2010

Is it okay for your girlfriend to talk to her guy friends on the phone, more often then her own boyfriend?

Okay.......this girl i've been dating is different compared to the other women I've dated before. Most women I've dated before focused most of there attention on me....not to sound cocky, but they did focus most of there time with me. The girl I'm dating now USE to be like that and not any more. Its funny how the tables have turned cause I've never been a phone person, never the first to call, except for setting up a first date.Is it okay for your girlfriend to talk to her guy friends on the phone, more often then her own boyfriend?
Are they gay? Ha ha, joking. Umm, I hate to cause drama, but I'm going to have to say, generally speaking, no. Although, before you jump to conclusions it is imperative to consider the guys and their relationship w/ your girl individually. Perhaps they have a brother/sister dynamic, or a therapuetic type of relationship. As long as you think it is strictly platonic you shouldn't worry. However, if you think there is any ';emotional cheating'; going on, then you should be concerned.





if it bothers you that much you should communicate your irritation or anxiety w/ your girlfriend, but in a respectful and tactful manner, of course. You never know, she may be flattered that you care!Is it okay for your girlfriend to talk to her guy friends on the phone, more often then her own boyfriend?
well i have guy friends all the time and im sure you have girl friends as well. just think about it like this, before you got together you are two different people with different lives and used to doing different things. maybe talking to her guy friends is her thing and not to sound mean, but if you didnt pay attention to her much even if she did maybe she thought you dont like that. maybe she thinks you think she is being clingy and needy when she pays attention to you but once her attention is not on you, you crave it. and that is not fair. because then you are just playing with her emotions
I think if you love someone then you want to spend as much time as possible with that person but not over run the relationship. Why would she spend all her time talking to another man if she loves you but then again how long has she known these other men, because friends will be there when no one else will be. It is hard to say, what do you do in your spare time?
well maybe she is tired of seeming like the only one putting effort into the relationship. you have to let her know that you care to. But it depends if she is aways talking to one guy more or added up together, with all the guys she knows
no it's not OK.
it's ok but just this one time. I mean with this one girl particularly

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