I have only a few guy friends and I wish I had more. I want to be able to hang out with them and talk on the phone and not have it be weird...HELP!How do I get close guy friends?
talk to them but don't talk to them about upcoming dances or parties because they might think you'll ask them and boys are weird about that unless you already go out. then you should only talk to them on your cell phone or if you have your own personal phone works to or else your parents will be acting over secure. Wait awhile before you start calling them,you don't want to add pressure to the boys so don't expect to call them in like 2 days so that's all I can help you with hope it works.
How do I get close guy friends?
Start by being nice. (Maybe even crack a few jokes) If He seems to be nice, and if he seems to like you, hang out a little bit. Get to know each other. After a while, hang out more, like at parks or other places. If he's (or them) are from school, schedule something. Eventually, if you ask for his number, it wont seem weird. If he (or, again, them) ask why, just say it's to be able to call or text them, just to talk or schedule something. It all starts by talking.
i would say talk to him but in a group. i said in a group because it wont give him any wrong ideas. and if there are other boy in the group you like to talk then talk with him too. so they will know you are just talking like a friend not to ask out or u have a crush. after sometime they will become friends and asking ph number is not a problem. this is how i do it so they know i just mean friendship nothing more. and i have lots of guy friends.
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