Why do assume the worst when my girlfriend is hanging with some of her guy friends alone?

I trust her completely. We've been going out for almost 2 months. We love each other and we know that we have discussed how it is so important to stay faithful and not cheat on each other. Yet, i still feel a bit uneasy and sometimes assume the worst when she texts me and tells me about how great of a time shes having with some of her guy friends, how they always make her laugh, etc.


Is there any way i can stop assuming the worst when shes hanging out alone with her guy friends? ThanksWhy do assume the worst when my girlfriend is hanging with some of her guy friends alone?
I don't think you're completely trusting her on that one.. But talk to her about it! %26amp; My opion if you have a boyfriend or a girlfriend you want hangout with the other sex unless your spuce is with you cause that just brings wrong thoughts to minds ya know!Why do assume the worst when my girlfriend is hanging with some of her guy friends alone?
Well,if she has given you no reason to feel insecure about your relationship then you just need to stop being so paranoid.I understand how it would make you feel uncomfortable when she tells you what a great time she is having.Tell her that you don't want to hear about what a great time she is having with another guy unless the guy is you.


I actually think it is rather rude and inconsiderate to do that to someone that you are with.When she does things like that then feelings of being insecure will happen because that is happening right now to you.I am 31 and I wouldn't want someone that I am with to do that to me.I wouldn't even approve of them seeing the opposite sex unless I was hanging out with them too.
I am in the exact same position.


I have been with my guy for two months. We are in love, and we have discussed how important it is to stay faithful and not cheat.





Yesterday night, I went over my guy friends house. We talked, nothing more. If your girl loves you, she wont do anything bad. She should have talked to you by now about it - I talked to my guy about it because im close friends with a couple of guys who im very close with. I let him know he had nothing to worry about.





Your chick is friends with both genders, nothing wrong with that. Im sure shes not cheating. Talk to her mates if your still uncomfortable.
I dont think so bud. I mean your always gonna have a little worryness in you. Its just how it is. I mean im 15 me an my gf have been dating for a year now an when we hang with oppisite sexes alone we still both get very uneasy about it. Its just something that will always happen some how. You just gotta have faith in her and belive that she wouldnt do anything or anything like that. If your really worried about it try talking to her about it if you haven't already or bring it up again and just tell her it bothers you. Idk if this will help much or not but Yeah. Sorry bro. Hope everything works out. D B M
You're only being human. You love her, and you want her to love you back. You've just got to breathe and tell yourself you trust her, because you do! :)





If you really feel like you need to, talk with her. Tell her sometimes it makes you uncomfortable, and I'm sure she'll understand. She may not even know some of the things she my say upset you.





Just talk it through, and it'll be water under the bridge in no time.
I just don't think this is a good thing to be telling one's boyfriend. I mean, what the f#$% is the matter with her? I'd be more worried if you didn't get jealous. IMHO when a guy and a girl spend one-on-one time together(the exception being their brother, father or doctor or something) there's ALWAYS something more to it. Cheating doesn't have to include sex.


Tell her this bugs the crap out of you. If she doesn't listen, break up with her. Even if she does truly believe that this behavior is OK, she's still not respecting your feelings.
do you mean you worry?


not really assuming the worst?


saying that does make it seem like you don't trust her..but i know what you mean.





my boyfriend and i have been together for nine months, and i trust him completely..i know he wouldn't hurt me purposefully.


but if he's hanging out with a bunch of girls..you worry.





when you love someone..you worry about anything that may make them change his or her mind about loving you back.


i think it just happens.
Unless the guy friend is gay, I personally wouldn't allow it. Or unless she had business to do with them. Only other way I would allow that is in a group setting. Even still, it boils down to how much you trust your girl and how much she respects you. But I don't do the whole bunch of guy friends. Only business associates, it alleviates a lot of problems.
i think you are assuming that because you love her and are just scared of loosing her. i used assumed the same thing with my boyfriend but then i told him that i was kinda jealous of him hanging out with so many girls. he said that i had nothing to worry about cause he loved me.. you should tell your girlfriend that you get a little jealous.
its natural, comes with love, itll make you paranoid, you will learn to let go with time, just place your trust in her, dont be suspicious because it will bring your quality of living down.if something happens it happens and youll hear about it from her. take some deep breathes and carry on with what your doing next time. think about the time your gonna be able to spend with her.
no theres is nothing u can do to stop feeling like that...y? because u care about her and its normal for u to assume the worst....just trust her that she wont do anything wrong and also y arent u with them i mean its also not ok for her to just hang out with a bunch of guys by herself
your just gonna have to trust her, i know it may be hard but thats all you can do.


aswell just pretend as if they were girls, you know? as if it was just one of her girlfriends.





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That's a jealousy you're just going to have to get over. Ask her why she doesn't invite you to hang with all of them... Guy friends are like girl friends- they don't make out or hardly even touch each other unless they're playing around.
if she wants ';guy friends'; then she needs to be single. why, youre not good enough. sounds like you are a patient guy though and i respect that....but how would she feel if you hung out with ';girl friends';


sounds like she just wants a desperate reaction from you.
Dude im like the same way with my girls its a feeling that wont ever go away no matter how hard i try but in the end there no use in worrying about it and assuming the worst cause its goin to stress u out so bad that ure goin to feel like ure goin insane
Another boy whose in love with a girl after two months, man if I had a dollar for everyone id be f*cking rich.





90% of women are whores deep down so as long as she stays away from the alcohol you have nothing to worry about.
Because you are a psycho, neurotic, bipolar, assberger, mess.





Sorry to break it to ya.





edit: Dang so far everyones avatar is the same.





edit: Oh, the chain was broken.
Because all guys want one thing. Sometimes it's in the front of our brain and sometimes its in the back. But it's there. It's not our fault. It's just that the goods are so hot.
Because women have smaller brains then men do so we are always thinking that these other men are smart enough to find your woman attractive and will attempt to sleep with her. Sorry its the truth.
';We've been going out for almost 2 months... We love each other...';








Please, I've had an eye infection for longer than 2 months. she's obviously ******* all of them at the same time and texting you with her free hand.
not really bro


jealousy is normal


all you can do is hope she wont cheat on you


all we have is hope
Because this is normal every one thinks like this at some point, its ok to think like this you cant help what you think only your actions are under your controle
no offense, but if you're assuming the worst, you do not completely trust her. tell her how you feel.
I think she's just being a girl and wants to see if you will get jealous... girls thrive on that. Keep the trust going and if you continue to get an uneasy feeling, something maybe up...
you say you ';trust her completely';... I dont think so
she should be faithful and only worry about you instead of other guys.slut
hang on my baby crapped his pants
Honestly..people have nothing better with themselves than to put-down others.
Well, in my experience, it's usually just the fact that you care so much that causes you to worry. When you have someone that you don't want to lose, you worry about losing them, regardless of much you trust them. The only thing for you to do is be honest with her about your worries and continue trusting her. If she's never given you a reason to not trust her, then there's no reason for you not to. I have had this same problem with my husband, and the best way to deal with it is to talk about it.
My boyfriend and I are just about as trusting as they come, for example I didn't have a problem that he went to one of his best friend's prom as her date, and then to after-prom for the weekend. He texted me during it and said he was having fun, but if he was to constantly comment on how some girl was making him laugh so much, I would be bothered too.





So, I don't believe you're being overprotective or jealous by feeling that way. It's natural. I think that maybe your girlfriend should be more discreet when she talks about hanging out with her guy friends--the same way you wouldn't brag about how fun a party was to someone who wasn't invited. Let her know how you feel but make it clear it's not because you don't trust her. How would she feel if your roles were switched?





You guys sound like you have a good, trusting relationship. Many friends of mine have bf/gfs who wouldn't let other girls/guys come within a 10 ft. radius of them. Good luck c:
wow ive never had that! u know wat get her *** back do da same thing shes doing 2 u n see how she likes it...text her or better yet call her n let her hear ur women freinds voice etc n tell her ull be home soon and you having such a great time wit her and dere making u laugh! truuuuuuuuuuuuuuuust me girsl are wayy more jealous than girls that will make her crack and she will be winning 2 u saying ';wtf i dont like that bla bla bla'; den das wen u tell her ';so u didnt think i liked u doing da same 2 me? trust me man just do that n let us all know what happens!