I really would like to have some guy friends, just friends, but they always end up coming on to me. I am attractive but I'm not a super model. But seriously sometimes I wonder if I have a post it note on my forehead that says come on to me. I have a fiance, but he lives far away (military duty) and once in a while I'd like to hang out with a guy. What can I do?How can I be just friends with a guy?
try meeting guys, or arranging to meet guys that you already know, in a more blokey environment like the pub, or going walking. Mention your fiance in conversation too - so that they know you're unavailable, and that way hopefully they'll begin to see you as a friend.How can I be just friends with a guy?
A good thing would be to make friends with military husbands who have wives doing military duty, or with couples, thats your best bet, or if your lucky, you might find a guy who doesnt feel the need to ignore that you have a fiancee, Id hang with you, I have a girlfriend, but Id still hang out just to be friends, its good to have friends.
If you are engaged (fiance) you should be hanging with your girlfriends with your guy friends. If your hanging with a guy alone you are sending mixed messages and screwing up any chance of making a regular friend with a guy. After you establish that this is JUST friends, then you can hang one on one.
A guy used to be my best friend, but I always thought he was gay. The way he dressed, acted...etc.
One day we wen't on a trip together and I said ';I'm so glad we're best friends. :)'; and he goes ';best friends? I thought we were dating!';
it was really awkward specially because I was going to sleep in the same hotel room as him. I've never talked to him since.
I'm not sure what you should do... but to me, I don't think guys and girls could stay JUST FRIENDS forever.
Find a gay friend or someone who is also only interested in having a female friend. I don't know, you see the reason guys come on to you when you just want to be friends with them is because the sole essence of true attraction is found in someone who is your friend.
Just tell them you'd only like to be friends?
When they start to come on to you, bring up conversation about your fiance casually? Like how much you'll be happy to see him when he gets back?
Change you Facebook looking for to ';just friends';?
There's countless ways to do this, really there is. Use your head.
stop wearing makeup and wear less revealing clothes. the only way that us guys can have a girl who is just a friend, is that she has to not stand out in a crowd. because if you are fine then sooner or later he will try to come on to you
yeah I know what you mean...I have a long distance relationship and it seems like most guys I'm friends with are interested in becoming more than friends. My strategy is just to talk about my boyfriend a lot XD
I wouldnt do it. Your fiance will most likely feel his trust is being violated, its not worth it. I would find a gay guy friend if you wanted a male around, then they are no threat.
Guys and girls CAN be just friends, you'll know when you first meet the guy. Guy friends are great, practically like brothers. Just be yourself, don't think about it, be funny.
you just gatta kinda tell guys that your not intrested and you have a fiance, but he lives far away (military duty) just role whit hit until you find a guy that will hang out whit you
TELL THEM RIGHT OFF THAT YOU ARE NOT LOOKING FOR A BF, AS LONG AS THEY KNOW THAT OFF THE TOP, THEIR INTENTIONS SHOULD BE FRIENDLY AND NOTHING MORE
Find a gay guy that has no problem being friends with a girl!
That i think would be a good friend.
say hey lets just be friends and walk away if they come on to you. gay people work well too i hear.
impossible
just be nice to them, lol ,if they come on to u then stop them... tell them ur fiance wouldn't like it :)
remove your pants. but naw, it largely cannot happen.
only if he is gay. Or has been castrated.
tell them that..i mean your engaged...they shouldnt being come on to you
befriend a gay
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