Leave it the way it is unless you have special feelings for one of them. In that case, make your feelings known, talk to him about the relationship letting him know you feel differently about him from the rest of the guys, so he gets the point.
If there's nothing going on with you and all the guys, let it be. They can be very valuable to you in the future because there is a sense of camaraderie without the sexual/romantic trappings and a loyalty that may prove valuable to you in unknown or unusual and strange situations with other men in the future. Kind of like having a bunch of older brothers looking out for you. Not a bad thing these days.How do I show my guy friends that I'm not just 'one of the boys' but something more?
Slowly start to make yourself more girly. Like wear make-up and wear different syles in your hair. the will notice the difference. They will probably take you more seriously, and see you in a different way not just as 'one of the guys' =)
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