How do I make guy friends(guys please answer)?

Okay so I'm horrible at making guy friends, which is probably why I hardly ever have a boyfriend. I will usually only talk to guys if I have a reason to, like if I sit next to them in class. Other than that I can be really shy and I have a hard time opening up to guys like I do to girls.


guys: do you think it's worth your time making friends with a girl who is shy at first?How do I make guy friends(guys please answer)?
Sometimes you don't need a reason to talk to someone. For example, if some guys are having an interesting conversation you can join them. If there's something interesting about someone, you can talk about that. That's how many friends meet. You may feel uncomfortable about it, but try to see yourself doing it from someone else's point of view. You'd look perfectly normal. Talking is a normal thing after all. You also don't seem like the type of person that would talk too much, so that's good as well.


If everyone seems interested or they're having a nice time talking, continue. If they seem uninterested, it's not the end of the world. Happens to everyone (no such thing as perfection in humans).





Answer to the 2nd question:


Yes.


Having a former friend who was formerly shy is a good thing. The girl most likely has a better social life, and the guy likes speaking with her more.





Just my opinion. :)How do I make guy friends(guys please answer)?
some guys can be just as shy as girls so they are too scared to talk to them. guys generally have bigger ego's than girls too so they are worried if they go and talk to a girl that they will just get shut down...it is deffinently worth your time making friend with a shy girl, but its hard to know if that girl even wants to be friends if they are so shy...





you should just talk to the boys as if you would any other of your friends who are girls, I'm sure once you start talking to them you will find it easier and they will know that you actually like talking to them. They might think because you are so shy you don't actually want to talk to them or anything...i dont know...good luck
I'm not a guy, but your mindset on this is completely wrong. You should make guy friends because you like them, not because you want to date them. That won't work, seriously.





You should make friends with a group of guys, and if you like one of them the spark can happen after that. You won't get close to anyone if your only reason for it is a relationship.
The single best way is to let it happen. Often if you hang out with your group of friends, sooner or later that group will join another group that contains some guys, and then you just get to know those guys. From my experience, that usually happens when you're like 14-15-16 at a co-ed High School.





If you can't wait, then join a club with some guys and girls in it. Environment or Charity clubs are two pretty easy choices that most schools have.





Good luck. :)
Well, just be yourself, introduce yourself and just treat them no differently then if they were of the same gender as you. Oh by the way i have a lot of friends that are girls but never had a girlfriend so if your after a boyfriend its not gonna happen instantly. Making friends is a long process.
My dear, you don't need only 'guys' to answer this question.. if you look at someone, smile, and say 'hey' of 'hi' or 'what's up'... and they don't have a response for you? Then, just walk on, and do it another guy... until someone finally answers you.. Guys can be just as shy as girls can be. Do you 'like' this 'guy'? Why do you like him, why do you 'want' to be 'friends' with him...Don't forget what most 'guys' want... puh-leeze....LOL! ~:c) (even if they say they don't .. guess what.... lol !! )
I have the same problem. But I have it with girls I don't know what to talk to them about or what to start a cpnversastion about.
I'm VERY VERY VERY shy and most of my friends are guys. Just find something you have in common I guess. Be weird like them. rofl





Idk what to tell you. I just go to a lot of parties and stuff.
talk about stuff you have in common.





(like if you see him using his phone or something, ask about certain features that phone has or something)





Talk sports, if you see him wearing a certain teams jersey.






yes, because before a relationship can happen you should be friends first. as you get older you will realize the best relationships are with you best friend, and that takes time
I think its worth meeting a girl who is shy at first. Friends are always great. Im willing to be your friend and Im a guy and Im 22 years old. How old are you?
Yes more than worth it. If that is how you are than no worries he will find you.
Guy like to playing computer games and any sort of games.
Wait. Are you looking to get a boyfriend or guy friends?
honestly no guy WANTS a girl-friend if we talk to a girl for a while and show interest its because we like her.