From a guy....Why a girl use to always glare at me?

I've always wanted to know why but i never got an answer. but here is my story. 5 years ago i met this girl and we became really good friends. We use to laugh together and just hang out. The following year i fell in love with her and finally told her my feelings... she put me down.. I considered myself her closet friend i made sure no one talked bad about her and told her about the things people say about her behind her back, i looked after her. Her 15 came up and i was not chosen to come out and it broke my heart, she picked the cooler group. On her night I tried dancing with her but she put me down again. she said she was tired but went to go dance with a guy not even close to a minute after she said no to me. After that night we were no longer friends, She refused to talk to me, and i did everything i can to make her talk to me. I was an ugly guy maybe, i weighed 170 and dropped down to 140 and started dressing with high sex appeal. I did what some people do..I changed myself for her. I was sad because she talked to all my friends except me. I was the outcast and people were spreading rumors. 11th grade was horrible, She told all her friends about me and how stupid or evil i was... and everyone i knew my old friends turned against me.. i lost more than half of my friends because of her. I got in 2 fights, i was an OK not to popular guy to the most hated annoying person in school. But it wasn't all that bad because I eventually moved on with the help of a guy friend that encouraged me and knew i had it in me to look and not to give up. I found a new girl...who is currently my girlfriend at this moment for over 2 years. This is where things start going questionable. I made it to 12th grade and with my new gf my new friends, and my new faith. I have almost forgotten about her, but then i started to notice that whenever i would hang out with my friend who she liked she would always glare at me. Whenever she would see me with my gf the same thing i would receive a glare, eating where she hangs out, because my friends hanged out there too...a glare, but i always got the most hated glare whenever i was with my girl. My girl never noticed but i did. This kept going on till graduation. the story continues but im where i need an answer.





I'm in college now and wonder





1. why did she use to glare at me


2. why didn't she dance with me on her 15


3. why didn't she invite me to be a part of her 15.


4. why did my friends abandon me





high school was so confusing, and i was part of the popular crowd in high school, i would love it to hear any answers thank youFrom a guy....Why a girl use to always glare at me?
It seems to me that she really hates you for some reason. There could be some point in time when you were either being too needy, and did some things to make her dislike you, like you could have been talking or smiling at other girls while you were with her, and girls hate that.





I had a similar situation when I had my first GF in High school, but I was pretty cool and popular in high school, so many girls were attracted to me, and I talked to new girls everyday and had their phone numbers, but only became friends without thinking about mating them because I already had a girlfriend, however she didn't seem to understand that.





She began hating me from that point on. At first I was confused as to why she suddenly disliked me and started disrespecting me but then I finally figured it out that it was due to this silly reason.





There was even at some point when I stormed at her for her derogatory treatment towards me,


and all of her friends turned against me too, starting from my own class turning against me to all of the other classes, and then rumors had spread around to the entire school, and I was no longer popular up to the day I dropped out to focus on starting my own Home business online to pursue my dreams.





So I can say that you may be experiencing a similar condition as mine. Have you argued with any of her friends? Have you acted like a jerk to her before? Or have you been suicidal? Being suicidal is a total no no and that even could cause her to be afraid of you and hate you.





You're not alone buddy, the reason for her glaring at you is because she could be realizing she still has some feelings for you, and is jealous that you're with your new GF, or on the other side she could still hate you for whatever reason. Just try to think of the possibilities of what could have gone wrong between the both of you, or just go to her, her friends, or your friends and ask them what went wrong? Just be straight forward with them so that the mystery can be solved.





Or just forget about it like me, and move on with your life. Your girlfriend loves you, and you've got a new group of friends who can also motivate you. You are a new person now. Just enjoy life. Let go of all past resentments, and move forward to a better and brighter future.





Cheers!